Kobe's loss...Vanessa's gain??

So im sure everyone now knows that NBA star Kobe Bryant's wife Vanessa has said she has had enough. After filing for divorce it is reported she will get 75 million as well as 3 mansion totaling her divorce settlement to about 150 million dollars. Now why am I writing about  this?? I so happened to be reading plenty of different men's or maybe I should say boy's points of view on this situation on facebook and the most frustrating thing is instead of trying to be empathetic with Vanessa and trying to see things from her point of view, they are quick to yell "he should have gotten a pre-nup," or better yet "dudes better learn from kobes mistake!" Ok so kobe didnt cheat on his wife??? Uh yes he did...AGAIN! Now I love to watch Kobe play and yes he is the BEST player in the league! Yes I did say that but no this does not give him a pass to do whatever he wants to do. By no means...I think instead of telling others to get a prenup guys should become much more conscious of the things they do and how they not only affect themselves but the people around them also! Now of course there are those guys who feel like Vanessa could have cheated also (and she might have, can you blame her??) but as far as I have read this woman has been there with Kobe by his side even though the bad situation with the rape back in 2003 and yet Kobe has the nerve to keep cheating and guys actually want to say he should have gotten a prenup?? Are you kidding me! He should have kept it in his pants!! It has always been said that Kobe is striving to be more and more like Jordan, well it seems that you succeeded with this one Kobe. I  truly think its a shame that men are not thankful, faithful, and humble about being married when they become famous especially if she has stood by them through thick and thin. Miami Heat star Dwyane Wade is the same way, oh not to mention he has the nerve to be flaunting Gabrielle Union as if that is going to last. Lol. Get a clue guys these women only and I mean only want your money!!! And everything that is done in the dark WILL come to light. That is what I will leave you with today as a quote/ bit of advice...ponder on that. Let me hear your thoughts!